Do you have the option of giving up on your own self?
You are confronted to options on an on-going basis, and you use judgments to formulate what you think is the most appropriate choice. However are you aware of the origins of your judgments? Are they...
View ArticleIs cheating solely about infidelity or extramarital affairs?
What does it really mean to cheat? Everybody has constructed his or her own definition of what cheating and especially what being cheated on really signify. For most individuals, cheating cannot...
View ArticleIs anyone else more valuable than you?
Who do you consider to be so much more valuable than you, and for whom you would choose to throw your entire life down the drain? As disturbing as it may sound, this question unambiguously illustrates...
View ArticleAre “You’ve hurt my feelings” and “You need to change” setups?
If you thought that blackmail and extortion were solely about financial stuff, you may want to reconsider your opinion. The utilization of emotions and their by-products such as “You’ve hurt my...
View ArticleDo you have sex for pleasure or to feel needed and accepted?
Sex often times triggers so many personal insecurities. For some it is completely taboo. For others, talking or even thinking about it is the source of great embarrassment. And yet it is fascinating...
View ArticleShouldn’t you thank this slut for stealing the love of your life?
Don’t you think that it is way too easy to label as a slut the woman for whom your boyfriend or husband is choosing to leave you? Things happen, even in the most unexpected way. However, do they...
View ArticleIs blaming others for the consequences of your choices kind of la
Do you know anyone around you who loves to systematically put the blame on others? They are the ones who make decisions without thinking for a minute about the consequences that their choices can...
View ArticleDoes sex scare the hell out of you?
The decision to have sex with someone else requires one major element. You must agree to take all your clothes off in front of another person, who himself or herself has to be in line with the exact...
View ArticleIs lying good for your relationship?
The desire or the need to share everything with anyone is not only utterly stupid and ridiculous but it is also extremely dangerous. Do you really think that everyone out there has the capacity to...
View ArticleIs grief an infallible means to control and manipulate others?
Have you ever been shocked by the behavior that some folks display during funerals? All those inconsolable men and women who seem totally unable to handle the passing of a loved one; a loved one they...
View ArticleWhy ask permission to change?
Life is not a long quiet river. And life does not have to be a hassle either. It does not have to be this fatalism before which you are totally powerless. Life invites choices. And it is up to you...
View ArticleWhy force an impossible relationship?
Why force anything for that matter? Most people have been conditioned to believe that their intrinsic value is measured by their ability to create relationships. What does it infer? To be deemed...
View ArticleWhat did The Bachelorette ask already?
American viewers, you are in luck, because a new season of The Bachelorette just started. If there is one show on television where the partakers’ personal insecurities reach their paroxysm in a record...
View ArticleDo you need to be in a relationship to feel good about yourself?
When you were single, how often did your friends try to hook you up with one of their own friends? If you are single today, how often are you asked when you will finally meet the love of your life?...
View ArticleDoes the perfect relationship exist?
Is it a question that has already crossed your mind at least once? Well, what does “perfection” mean to you? Is it a blur? Is it a concept or a goal after which you have been running all these...
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